Don't Give Up on Dating Without Trying This First
by Amy Waterman
Dating SHOULD be easy.
There's enough dating advice online, in women's magazines, and on talk shows to solve every woman's problems.
So why aren't we all happily married to our perfect mate?
I asked myself this question recently
when yet another lovely woman in her forties introduced herself to me,
saying that she'd been single for the past decade and she was ready to
give up on men.
"It's too much work," she said. "I can't
sit around waiting for a man to drop onto my front doorstep. I've got to
get on with my life. And if that means that I don't end up meeting
someone, so be it." She shrugged.
My heart dropped when she said that.
I know it's difficult to meet men (and
even more difficult to find one worth your time), but that doesn't mean
you have to GIVE UP on love.
Would you resign yourself to a lifetime alone just because it's "easier" staying single?
I knew what I had to do.
Dating Advice for REAL Women
Most of us women don't need more dating advice.
We've been married or in a serious relationship before. We're not novices. We know more about men than a lot of people!
But what we DON'T know is why love isn't happening as easily for us this time around.
There's something tripping us up. Maybe
there just aren't as many good men around these days. Maybe we're just
not sending off the right vibes. Maybe the dating world has moved on.
Maybe it's old-fashioned to expect courtship and marriage anymore.
What we need is some sort of diagnostic tool to hone in on the REAL reason our love life seems stuck in first gear.
Luckily, I knew just the thing...
My Story
I've spent the past five years devouring
dating research as part of my quest to unravel what modern women need to
know about love.
I can't count the number of times I've
read about some "magical secret" that would trigger a man's
psychological commitment switch, or some "secret power" that would
enable a woman to seduce any man she laid eyes on.
To me, those kinds of tricks always seemed rather silly.
Like many women, I didn't want power over
men. I just wanted to be HAPPY. And part of "being happy" was having
someone - just one man, thank you very much - to share my life with!
My needs were quite simple: all I wanted
was someone I could trust, who loved me like I loved him, and who would
be there for me no matter what. That's it.
And I knew that I wasn't alone. Most women, if they're honest with themselves, want the same thing.
So why, then, was it still so hard?
Why couldn't all the dating advice in the
world change the fact that so many of us women were still on our own
with no decent prospects in sight?
The Secret to Attracting Love
I found the answer unexpectedly. It
wasn't in some dating manual or relationships guide. It was in a classic
self-help book published back in the 1980s.
In an instant, it changed everything for me.
The secret to attracting love, I
discovered, didn't have anything to do with pushing a man's buttons or
making him see us in an attractive light.
That's where we were all going wrong.
Most dating advice wrongly assumes that
you need to DO something or CHANGE something about yourself to be more
attractive to men.
Actually, you don't need to convince men of ANYTHING.
Putting too much energy and attention into attracting men can actually achieve the opposite.
So what does it really take to turn your luck in love around?
Come on a Journey with Me
In my latest ebook, I take my readers on an emotional journey.
We travel through our thoughts, feelings, and past heartbreak to find the root of our issues with men.
It's a journey of discovery, and it's not always easy. It can be hard to look inside and see the truth of what you feel.
It can be hard to face up to who you've always been and who you've always wanted to be.
But nothing good ever comes without a little hard work, does it?
My course will take you to a place where
you finally feel happy with yourself, happy with your life, and wholly,
completely loved.
Would you like to go there with me?
Join me on the adventure of a lifetime, with my Guide to Fearless Dating.
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